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	<title>Comments for Julie Miliner</title>
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	<description>The Official Website for the author who wrote The Magic and the Mayhem</description>
	<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 21:25:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Loose Men by marie</title>
		<link>http://juliemiliner.com/loose-men/#comment-331</link>
		<dc:creator>marie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2009 00:34:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John drake is like many self centered men.  He is immature, irresponsible, and selfish. He's a ladies man because he got himself together financially and physically. I love the twist with all the women and kids drama. The best thing is he step up and become the man he need to be. I totally enjoyed this book.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John drake is like many self centered men.  He is immature, irresponsible, and selfish. He&#8217;s a ladies man because he got himself together financially and physically. I love the twist with all the women and kids drama. The best thing is he step up and become the man he need to be. I totally enjoyed this book.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Betts by Jacqueline</title>
		<link>http://juliemiliner.com/betts/#comment-261</link>
		<dc:creator>Jacqueline</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2009 01:28:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A lot of women have babies because they think they're ready.  It doesn't matter to them that they're not married.  Sometimes the men eventually fall in line but nowadays women don't need the man to make the home.  I agree with the idea that both parents are essential in raising a child though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of women have babies because they think they&#8217;re ready.  It doesn&#8217;t matter to them that they&#8217;re not married.  Sometimes the men eventually fall in line but nowadays women don&#8217;t need the man to make the home.  I agree with the idea that both parents are essential in raising a child though.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Loose Men by fiona</title>
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		<dc:creator>fiona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 01:39:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It seems like nowadays they're all loose men.  My brother has three kids but he spends more time with his girlfriends kids than he does with his own.  We try to include them in stuff but its becoming more and more awkward.They all have different mothers and ever one of them is a drama queen.  I try to talk to him but he doesn't think its a problem.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems like nowadays they&#8217;re all loose men.  My brother has three kids but he spends more time with his girlfriends kids than he does with his own.  We try to include them in stuff but its becoming more and more awkward.They all have different mothers and ever one of them is a drama queen.  I try to talk to him but he doesn&#8217;t think its a problem.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Spoiled or Rotten by Julie</title>
		<link>http://juliemiliner.com/spoiled-or-rotten/#comment-259</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 01:19:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A lot of things inspire writers to write.  When I started The Magic and the Mayhem I had no idea where the story would lead. I generally write whatever comes to mind and after about a week of writing a story emerges that I can influence to go one way or another. This is perhaps when characters emerge who have a story to tell based on my personal biases. Adding antagonists, which are sometimes people and sometimes situations, help lead the main character through the triumphs and failures of life’s lessons. 

One theme in most of my stories has to do with the lonely or abandoned heart. In this book, the abandoned hearts seem to be the children’s or their mothers’ but I hope the idea that John Drake’s heart was at least lacking something based on his actions as a younger man were conveyed.

I do feel a certain and particular need to speak to young men who for whatever reason find themselves absent from the lives of their children. A child depends upon a father obviously for financial support but for emotional support as well. As The Magic and the Mayhem began to take form, I realized that when men walk away they’re virtually cutting part of their own life’s growth away. At the end of the day the void turns inward leaving them with an angst that cannot be healed or reversed. The part of the psyche that could have been formed is empty, except that the rest of the world celebrates fatherhood, something that, even though they bore children, they have unwittingly bowed out from the right to participate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of things inspire writers to write.  When I started The Magic and the Mayhem I had no idea where the story would lead. I generally write whatever comes to mind and after about a week of writing a story emerges that I can influence to go one way or another. This is perhaps when characters emerge who have a story to tell based on my personal biases. Adding antagonists, which are sometimes people and sometimes situations, help lead the main character through the triumphs and failures of life’s lessons. </p>
<p>One theme in most of my stories has to do with the lonely or abandoned heart. In this book, the abandoned hearts seem to be the children’s or their mothers’ but I hope the idea that John Drake’s heart was at least lacking something based on his actions as a younger man were conveyed.</p>
<p>I do feel a certain and particular need to speak to young men who for whatever reason find themselves absent from the lives of their children. A child depends upon a father obviously for financial support but for emotional support as well. As The Magic and the Mayhem began to take form, I realized that when men walk away they’re virtually cutting part of their own life’s growth away. At the end of the day the void turns inward leaving them with an angst that cannot be healed or reversed. The part of the psyche that could have been formed is empty, except that the rest of the world celebrates fatherhood, something that, even though they bore children, they have unwittingly bowed out from the right to participate.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Spoiled or Rotten by Red</title>
		<link>http://juliemiliner.com/spoiled-or-rotten/#comment-258</link>
		<dc:creator>Red</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 02:46:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is there any particular reason why you wrote a book from the perspective of a single man?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is there any particular reason why you wrote a book from the perspective of a single man?</p>
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